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Tuesday, May 18, 2010

.High Self Esteem is Needed Of Course .

Salam people.

Life is more amusing than we thought.
Is it right? What say you about that?
For me, yes, if you find yourselves to have a lot of positive things,
compared to negative things,
yes, life can turn to be so much amusing of course!
But somehow, there are still some negative side, right?
You must nod, because I know everyone does :)

the meaning of self esteem from wikipedia:

Self-esteem is a term used in psychology to reflect a person's overall evaluation or appraisal of his or her own worth. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs (for example, "I am competent" or "I am incompetent") and emotions such as triumph, despair, pride and shame. A person's self-esteem may be reflected in their behaviour, such as in assertiveness, shyness, confidence or caution. Self-esteem can apply specifically to a particular dimension (for example, "I believe I am a good writer, and feel proud of that in particular") or have global extent (for example, "I believe I am a good person, and feel proud of myself in general").

can you see the instances?
well, yes, it is true indeed,
if we ourselves get some positive things,
which we can absorb from our surrounding,
we can be a great human being on earth as well! ;).

okay, from my own story,
i've came across with one channel on television,
so now, i dont feel any more bad perception about myself,
of being inconfident to speak in front.
so, how about you??
surely most of people feel scared, worried and nervous to speak in front.
and as we can see from mass media,
even European,or Americans who have self-confidence,
also had been voted that
"speak in front of people"
is the most top of other fears, like height, snakes (this is my fear!!!), insects,
and others, to people all over the world. this is just a normal thing, babe. :D
so, all we need to do is practise to make the speech goes fluently.
speak out everything that you want to say, other than speak with honesty ;)
people will get you easily when you speak honestly.

please focus to the photo.
this is what i've learnt in Oral Communication class.
you must consider all people from all sides to listen to you.
can you see the legs of that speaker? hehe~

okay .friends, we must actually feel that we are brave enough
when we speak (eventough we dont.haha)
we have to pretend, alright?
make sure you look good on that special day.
neat is anough :)

i tell you what?
if you have your self-confidence to speak, and put aside your shyness,
people wont look down to you,
but they will listen attentively, no regret.
all we need to do is to try our best. that's all .
practise makes perfect. very truue! :)

if not, you'll be this scared, okay? hehe~

Sarah Saadi's Self Esteem:

im eager to speak in front if i'm ready enough.haha.this is based from
the previous presentation.

im willing to smile from morning to midnight, if i do something
good and worthful. :)

♥ i'll have a very high self confidence in taking care of my brother.haha (?)

♥ i'm having a great sense of humour if you have a bad day.hehe. im great in spreading
positive charges!hehe

♥ i am very correct (almost), in expecting the period of time.
i mean, i can predict how long the time passed, and when i look to my watch or clock,
it's mostly true! :)

♥ i can be a great motivater if someone is having problems.
usually, i can be the one, insyaALLAH :)

♥ i can tell myself to be patient even my body get so much hot tempered,
and explode anytime.haha. i can be the one if i really work on it.

♥ yes, i can smile, even im not in mood. oh God, even its hard,
you need to smile :)

People, these are not to show off,
but just to figure out what I have in myself.
And if it doesnt exist, the i really need to find one.

p.s: who says my blog is all corny thing?? HAHA ;P
i love the way of Madam Adeeba Sulaiman delivers her talks.
awesome, man! XD

[ you can vlick on this link to see how brave this man sing in front of
thousands of people.huhu]


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